About Good Grief

Joe Primo is the CEO of Good Grief. An international speaker, author and commentator, Joe serves on the Boards of Option B at the Sheryl Sandberg and Dave Goldberg Family Foundation and Vennly, an audio-focused spiritual health app. He is the author of “What Do We Tell the Children? Talking to Kids About Death and Dying,” Abingdon Press. Primo is the national spokesperson for the National Funeral Director’s Association and their Youth & Funerals Initiative, and is a past president of the National Alliance for Grieving Children. Joe received his Master of Divinity degree from Yale University, where he concentrated in end-of-life care. He later served as a hospice Chaplain at both The Connecticut Hospice and The Hospice of Southeastern Connecticut.

Melissa Parrish is the Chief Operating Officer at Good Grief. In her role, she is responsible for the management of staff and organizational priorities by ensuring that all of Good Grief's strategies, timelines, goals, and outcomes are met successfully. Melissa received her Master’s Degree in Counseling from Montclair State University, and she has worked clinically with children, families, and adults within hospitals and community-based mental health programs.

Melissa has worked with Good Grief since 2009 and has served in numerous roles during her tenure. Most recently as Director of Programs, Melissa led the organization through extensive program expansion at its two centers, oversaw and developed programming for the launch of Good Grief's satellite locations in urban communities, designed and launched Good Grief's summer camp, and fostered the development of key partnerships, including Arizona State University’s Resilient Parenting for Bereaved Families. Melissa is committed to the organization's vision of ensuring that Good Grief is able to reach more kids locally, regionally and nationally. Outside of work, Melissa can be found spending time with her son.

Jesse is responsible for Good Grief's education programs in the external community. Through education and advocacy, Good Grief is working to transform the environments that grieving children inhabit on a daily basis like schools, community and faith organizations, other nonprofits, and more. Good Grief uses workshops, curriculum, and coaching to increase community awareness and competency in providing support to grieving children and their families. Jesse grew up in Washington state and made his way out to New Jersey for graduate school, earning a Master of Divinity from Princeton Theological Seminary. While at PTS, Jesse focused his studies on ethics, spirituality, and counseling. Jesse joined Good Grief after completing a graduate internship, working first as a Program Director before taking on this educational role. Jesse's favorite thing about Good Grief is the incredible community of families, volunteers, and staff who inspire him with their stories and desire to wrestle with life's big questions.

As Director of Operations for Gg, Moira is responsible for the day to day operations, from bills to HR to lightbulbs and everything in between. Gg is so much more than the rooms between its walls. Gg is an understanding; an acceptance of each individual’s unique journey with grief; it is a place to grow. Moira is grateful for the warmth, patience and generosity of Gg’s volunteers, staff and families that provides the safe environment for each child to discover their map for their journey.

St. Rachel Ustanny has over 20 years’ experience working with nonprofit organizations to improve the quality of life of underrepresented and underserved communities. As a human rights advocate, she has represented the government and people of Jamaica in several international spaces including at the United Nations. Her work in programs spans more than 15 years and has included program design and development, management, and evaluation. St. Rachel has her Doctor of Management in Organizational Leadership, her Masters in Gender and Development Studies, and her Bachelors in International Relations and Political Science. In her spare time, St. Rachel can be found hiking with her children, Taitu and Benjamin, at one of New Jersey’s beautiful parks.

Paul cultivates partnerships with K-12 school districts, bringing Good Grief Schools to where children learn and play throughout their early lives. These school-based programs take a comprehensive, schoolwide approach to build resilience in children and overcome grief and adversity by learning new skills and developing supportive relationships.

Paul grew up in Ohio, lived in South Carolina after earning his undergraduate degree from the University of South Carolina, and eventually moved to the Northeast where he helped raise his family. He's been a supporter and advocate of public education for twenty years, first as a school board member and in recent years as a provider of services and resources that help educators advance student achievement. Paul earned his Master of Management degree from University of Phoenix, and is now most excited to bring Good Grief's valuable programs to school systems seeking a compassionate approach to social emotional learning.

Kate started out at Good Grief an intern in the summer of 2016! As Development Assistant, she assists in planning events, and ensuring families support in their time of need through fundraising. Kate studied psychology and social work at Montclair State University. Having been a grieving teen herself, Kate knows the importance of Good Grief's work, and she is thrilled to be part of an organization that advocates for, educates, and provides a safe space for grieving children.

As Senior Advisor for Brand and Engagement, Paul is focused on building awareness and understanding of Good Grief's new mission and brand with all the organization's key stakeholders. Having experienced the loss of a younger sibling as a teenager, Paul is a strong believer in the value of services and support Good Grief provides to children and families grieving the loss of a loved one. Prior to joining Good Grief, Paul spent nearly three decades in communications leadership roles with a number of global companies in the pharmaceutical, manufacturing, and service industries. A native of Toronto, Canada, Paul holds an undergraduate degree from the University of Western Ontario and a graduate degree from Syracuse University's S.I. Newhouse School of Public Communications.

Mary joined Good Grief in January 2008, first as a volunteer facilitator, and then as a member of the staff in 2010. As Education Consultant for Gg, Mary develops and delivers a variety of learning programs about loss and grief for our facilitators, our families, for schools, community organizations, and businesses. She is a retired educator and elementary school principal, holding a Doctorate in Education from Columbia University and a Certificate in Thanatology from the Association for Death Education and Counseling. Mary loves working at Gg, being part of this caring community, and having the opportunity to help others learn about grief and loss as well and to understand how to support those who are grieving.

As the Senior Development Manager, Heather works with a very talented fundraising team to raise both funds and awareness for Good Grief's mission and programming. She also plans and helps to host our three signature events each year - Golf Fore the Kids, 5K Run and Walk for Hope, and the fall Gala. Heather was inspired to join Good Grief by a dear friend who grew up coping with the loss of a parent. She is inspired, amazed, and touched by the strength, resilience, and growth that occurs daily within the Good Grief community.

As Family Coordinator for Good Grief, Anita is responsible for family orientations, providing ongoing support to families and maintaining a supportive relationship with participants. Anita joined Good Grief in June of 2018 after a long career in working with and for children at Chapin School, HomeFront, and Big Brothers Big Sisters. She considers herself very lucky to be doing work she loves in an organization that she deeply respects, and that has such a big impact on the lives of people in her community.

Will McKenna comes to Good Grief with a clinical background in Social Work. He most recently worked at the Mount Sinai Adolescent Health Center where he provided individual, group, and family therapy to youth and their families, ages 13-24. Will specializes in practice through a trauma-informed lens and is excited to be continuing this line of work as the new Program Manager at our Morristown location.

Rachel began volunteering at Gg in 2006, became a volunteer facilitator in 2008 and joined the staff in 2010. Rachel feels truly fortunate to be a part of Good Grief. She believes in the mission and sees firsthand how the program has changed the lives of Gg’s participants and volunteers.

As the Princeton Program Manager, Tyler is responsible for the coordination and implementation of program services , comprehensive community outreach plans, and volunteer/intern recruitment and supervision for the Princeton center. Tyler found a passion for non-profits during her time in graduate school. She knew that Good Grief would be the right fit after hearing about all of the incredible work they were doing with families and the local community. Tyler’s favorite thing about Good Grief is the resiliency, empathy, and strength that can be found in each and every individual involved with the organization.

Patty, a grieving mom herself, helped bring Good Grief to Princeton. For the past 6 years, she has helped Good Grief reach more children in families throughout central New Jersey. Patty is inspired daily by Good Grief's unique mission and dedicated staff and feels privileged to witness the comfort that participant families bring to one another, along with the relationships formed through Good Grief's peer support groups.

Adrienne received a BA from Skidmore College, and after a career in advertising and corporate communications, decided to change direction and earned a Masters degree in Mental Health Counseling from Lewis & Clark College in Portland, OR. It was in Portland where Adrienne discovered her passion for working with grieving children and families at The Dougy Center. Adrienne strives to achieve Good Grief’s ongoing mission to provide a warm and safe place for all grieving children and families.

Pam feels fortunate to be working with a team of people whose work ethic is as big as their hearts. She is passionate about Good Grief’s mission because she is able to witness first-hand the effects that the program has on its families. Pam was in the first class of facilitators trained in 2007, and has been a loving listener ever since.